Hazardous Humour: Professional Boundaries (Professional Relations Services)
Most people like to think they have a great sense of humour, and pride themselves on making others laugh. As teachers, we’re no exception. It’s delightful when we can make students smile despite themselves. Good cheer is a good teaching tool.
As educators, we are performers who are on display all day long. We need to engage our students, motivate, inspire, and support them. Sometimes we think that humour is the way to go. We’ve read Robert Munsch’s books or similar books to our own kids or to a group of young students, and we have seen the magic that shared laughter can create.
However, reactions to humour are highly individual. What one person finds funny, another may think is stupid, boring, or offensive. Ask yourself whether you like the Three Stooges. Captain Underpants? Austin Powers? Russell Peters? Jerry Seinfeld? You might like some of them, all of them, or none. Your own close friends or family may not share your views. Humour and jokes are the hardest concepts to translate and the most difficult to understand in a language not our own. Humour is rooted in age, sex, culture, language, and religion. For many people comedy is funniest when it deliberately violates social norms or taboos. Many teachers have found themselves inadvertently wading into dangerous waters when they attempt to use humour in their classroom or with their colleagues. Humour can indeed be hazardous in the school setting.
Students
Recent cases brought before the Ontario College of Teachers illustrate the danger of classroom humour. In one case, a student was exaggerating the extent to which he had hurt his finger in gym class. In response, the teacher joked, “Would you like me to cut if off?” This remark, in combination with other comments, was investigated as unprofessional conduct. Although not meant as such, this type of comment could be perceived by the student or others as a threat. While intended to lighten the mood, the remark could be seen as menacing and as an attempt to silence or embarrass the student. Threats of physical violence will never be seen as funny by the Ontario College of Teachers. Sarcasm and irony are not useful tools in the classroom. These types of comments are frequently misunderstood and misinterpreted. This year, for example, the College’s Investigation Committee issued a written caution to a teacher who made derogatory comments to students and also sarcastically questioned whether one student “had a brain.”
Boundaries
Teachers are acutely aware that they must maintain a professional distance from their students. They are educators and role models, not friends or parents. Inappropriate humour with students is viewed as a boundary violation: a failure to maintain a professional comportment and distance, and a failure to appreciate the sensitivity that students may have to a teacher’s comments, however humorous in intention. It is very difficult to tell what type of humour will be appropriate in the classroom, given the differences in culture, religion, sensitivity, and maturity levels of students at all grades.
Off-Limits Humour
What is off limits in terms of humour? A joke or comment is hard to consider “funny” if it:
- is demeaning to a child’s self-esteem
- is racially or ethnically motivated
- refers to historical tragedies or world leaders who have been widely condemned
- is sexually suggestive
- invokes an episode of violence or hatred (e.g., a reference to the Columbine shootings or to the 9/11 terrorists attacks)
- demeans a specific religious belief
- ridicules
- can be construed as mean, sarcastic, or hostile
- is degrading to a member of a minority group.
If you have the slightest inkling that what you’re about to say may be controversial or sensitive, keep it to yourself.
Overhearing Students Use Inappropriate Humour
If you hear your students teasing, ridiculing, or making offensive jokes, be clear and firm: explain that this behaviour is not humorous, why it is not, and that it will not be tolerated. Furthermore:
- Do not accept “it was just a joke” as a defence. If a remark is hurtful or offensive, it is not funny.
- Do not laugh along with inappropriate jokes that students make.
- Do not forward or share emails that you think are humorous but that could be construed as profoundly “unfunny.”
- Take appropriate action when inappropriate humour is used by students.
We need to use our best judgment and discretion in these situations. No one wants to teach in a humourless environment, but teachers have to be aware of the professional standards that guide their conduct. In this way, you maintain your position as role model and educator without compromising the respect you’ve earned along the way.
Humour Among Colleagues
Colleagues may also take exception to off-colour or inappropriate humour. Offensive humour outside the classroom that affects the school community can attract human rights complaints, harassment complaints, disciplinary measures, or College of Teachers complaints. As teachers we owe each other respect in our workplaces. We are as diverse as our students and our appreciation of humour is as idiosyn- cratic. Do not share off-colour jokes touching on sex, sexual orientation, gender, religion, origin, or any of the other areas that can cause offence. Be especially careful with the Internet and email correspondence. Don’t forward offensive jokes or pictures to your colleagues. Some might delete them, others might send them directly to the College or school board. Remember that poisonous humour can poison a workplace.